The Wiccan Christian

Hope, Healing and Happiness in Trauma Recovery

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Welcome to The Wiccan Christian. I’m sure many people wonder, “What exactly does that mean?” The truth is, I’m not sure there’s an official definition. If there is, I suppose that’s what I am. Hi, my name is Cindy. I created this blog to be something like a diary—a place to share my thoughts, favorite quotes, Bible verses, spiritual reflections, and the little things I’ve learned along the way. Some of these ideas are my own. Others have come from people whose words stayed with me long after I heard them. Together, they’ve helped shape the person I am today. I won’t promise that this blog will be perfectly organized because, quite honestly, I’m not an organized person. What I can promise is honesty. My hope is that by sharing my experiences, someone else might feel understood. Maybe you’ll see a piece of your own story in mine. I believe that sharing our stories takes away fear, replaces judgment with understanding, and reminds us that none of us are truly alone. I’ve lived through some incredibly beautiful moments, and I’ve also experienced some of life’s deepest wounds. Those experiences have left scars that may never completely disappear, but they have also shaped my strength, my faith, and my compassion for others. I don’t define myself by what I’ve been through. I define myself by the fact that I’m still here, still growing, still learning, and still believing there is hope. I’m a survivor. Thank you for stopping by. I hope you’ll stay awhile, and I hope something you read here brings you comfort, encouragement, or simply reminds you that someone else understands. Welcome.

You Know….

I’ve been trying to over come the nightmares. They still happen. Some nights stronger than others.

I’m having a hard time figuring out how to get my website to GoDaddy. I admit, I’m an idiot when I comes to electronics.

But you know, I’m starting to understand that perhaps I am being followed. As in “ stalked”. By somebody who hates himself. I do have empathy for your feelings. But I’m not the answer to the problem. You just gotta go through it. YES IT HURTS. And possibly for a long time. But if you don’t change those old beliefs and patterns….. I don’t think you want to be alone…. I mean, alone.

I took five (5) years. Yeah, that’s a long time in isolation. But that’s how long it took me to learn to love myself first. And if you don’t love yourself first, you are incapable of love. Period.

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    Ernie ‘Dawg’

    And if you don’t love yourself first, you are incapable of love. This is the truth, well said.

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